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Cuba – watch out, here I come!

I’m off to Cuba in just a few hours. When people ask me about it, I’ve been telling them that I think it will be unlike any trip I’ve ever been on. But then I realized that I say that about every trip! And I think it’s because I make sure each trip is unlike any of the others. I hope to do that this time as well.

Trip Itinerary
Trip Itinerary

As with other adventures, I’m nervous. This one is unique in some ways because I’ll be completely disconnected. I haven’t experienced that since my Africa trip and those that know me can probably recall what happened during that time and how late I heard about it. So this makes me a little scared. I hope and pray that everyone I love stays safe and happy while I travel. Please…please…please…

This one is also different in that I’ll be part of a group tour for the whole time. Currently, this is the only legal way to travel to Cuba so I don’t have much choice but I’m pretty excited about it. It’s a rare opportunity when I leave all planning to someone else! I don’t have to do anything but show up and be open and have a freakin’ blast! I’ve been wary in the past of group tours but the entire point of this one is to expose me to the true culture of Cuba and its people. And after so much research on the tour and the group, I’m pretty confident that will happen.

Another thing I do before each adventure is set my intention(s) for the trip. Honestly, they’re usually the same. But it’s worth it, I think, to think about them and voice them and in this case, write them down. I’ve found that it makes me more accountable. So here goes.

  • I’m going to be myself, not who I’m expected to be and maybe not who I’ve been in the past, but exactly who I am. And I’m going to own that.
  • I’m going to be vulnerable – to others in the group and anyone I’m lucky enough to meet. I think that goes along with being your true self. Doing that is a vulnerable thing.
  • I’m going to try to remain present. Even when things don’t go according to plan or I’m completely sweaty or sunburnt. I’m going to feel the burn and stay in the moment as much as I can. P.S. You all know I’ll be wearing SPF 70!
  • I’m going to pay attention to the people I meet, the things I see and the experiences I have so that I can learn as much as possible while I’m there. I appreciate these crazy differences between my culture and others and I want to lean into that.
  • I’m going to blog. Unfortunately I won’t be able to post on a timely basis as there’s no free Wi-Fi in Cuba. But writing about my experiences is kind of like a diary to me. It also makes me accountable for the decisions I make because I know that they’re going to be written down. Don’t be surprised if you see a post starting with “Dear Diary” 🙂
  • I’m going to dance with abandon and a huge grin on my face. I’m going to try at least one Cuban cigar. I’m going to drink mojitos and local beer and local wine and rum. I’m going to swim in the ocean with the sharks and fishes.
  • I’m going to wander – yes alone – but safely.

And I’m going to explore…and come back a different person for it. Stay tuned.

Cuba's Beautiful Beaches
Cuba’s Beautiful Beaches

Day 14 – Every Journey Must End

Today was going to be a less strenuous hike for us since it was the last day and we were all a bit tired from the base trek and the celebration afterward! We’d spend some of the day in the van, stopping by some of the stunning vistas to take photos and then we’d stop at Sarmiento Lake, where we’d hike 5k or so – looking at the fauna and trying to find pumas.

As you all know, I’ve traveled the world. And loved (almost!) every minute of it. But with every trip there comes a time when I’m just ready to go home. Today that time came. After the amazement and excitement of yesterday, I was ready to go back to Charlotte and my puppy; and my family; and my phone calls with my mom; and my wine dinners with my friends; and my coffee! It’s kind of a crappy feeling but it’s happened with every trip so I’ve gotten used to it. I’d find myself today struggling – but mostly succeeding – to stay in the present-moment and enjoy this final day.

Again, it was a picture-perfect day in Patagonia. Our first stop was a small Patagonian lake on the way to Sarmiento. The skies were so clear and the air so still that we were given another perfect reflection of the mountains in this gorgeous lake. I also got to see a scorpion for the first time – creepy cool.

IMG_2753From there we traveled onto another lookout point where a stunning waterfall sat at the base of a view of the towers.

IMG_2763Finally we drove to Sarmiento. Our guides called this the puma graveyard because this is where they hunt and kill. This area was filled with guanacos which look like a more elegant llama and which the pumas eat with abandon.

Almost immediately upon leaving the van, we found our first carcass. It was a guanaco which a puma killed and picked completely clean! It sounds strange but it was really cool to see! And so interesting to think that pumas roamed the same area where we were hiking. They hunt early in the morning and in the evening, however, so we were safe. Although our guides did give us instructions on what to do should we come face-to-face with a puma 🙂 I wanted to come face-to-face with a puma!

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We walked for a good 2 and a half hours and although we did see some puma tracks and puma feces, unfortunately we didn’t see any pumas…it was a little disappointing. But up on a high rock we did see some ancient cave paintings. These paintings are estimated to be about 5000 years old! Absolutely incredible…to be standing in the same place that people stood 5000 years ago. Fascinating!

IMG_2766 We were all a bit tired at this point – too much partying! – and needed a nap. So back to Ecocamp we went for a bit of a rest and a fantastic farewell dinner with our fellow trekkers and guides.

Although I was ready to leave, it was a day – and a trip! – that will go down as one of my best. And that is saying A LOT! I feel blessed and grateful for this amazing experience and the people that have made it so unforgettable!

 

 

 

Day 13 – the famous Torres del Paine trek

Today’s trek was absolutely my favorite! We set out at 9:15 to another perfect day. Just a few puffy clouds in the otherwise clear blue sky; temperature in the 50s. The conditions were ideal for the “hardest” trek. We were going to the base of the towers. It would be a 22k trek – about 13 miles – with an altitude change of about 400 meters. Basically there were to be some tough climbs on this one.

A lot of us were having knee problems so one of our guides managed to find me a trekking pole. And off we went. The first 20 minutes were easy and then we started climbing. Over gravel and rocks and boulders – loose ones. And then through the forest and lots of mud. And then the final climb over boulders and SNOW.

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Everyone who passed by made a wish and added a rock from the trail.

Similar to the past few days, I was mesmerized by the sounds. They were different today. There was a constant backdrop of running water in the streams created by the melting snow and the glacier. So the peace of that and then hiking boots tromping in mud, heavy breathing and trekking poles hitting rocks as the climb became steeper. It was so exhilarating! The air was so cool and crisp that each deep breath felt amazing. The last hour was a constant uphill but what we saw at the end was worth all of the work. A stunning, turquoise lake, halfway covered with a thin sheen of perfect ice creating a lighter turquoise area of the lake. And surrounding this were majestic mountains including the 3 towers. The melting snow at the top created stripes in the rocks coming down from the towers into the lake. Words can’t do it justice! It was absolutely remarkable. We sat and basked in the beauty for quite a while, shielded from the wind by giant boulders.

IMG_2742IMG_2739We took the same route to get down and although it was a killer on the knees, the trekking poles definitely helped. All in all, this trek was relatively easy for me – especially compared to the French valley trek two days ago. It was tough and gorgeous and challenging and peaceful all in one amazing day. I had so much positive energy that at the end, I managed to convince two of the other girls to sprint up the final two hills back to Ecocamp.

To celebrate we all went directly to the bar for a Chilean beer. As with every trip, I’m a bit of a loner and usually join the younger group for one drink or two. But tonight I was going to make an effort to join the group and stayed until the early hours of the morning drinking wine with everyone, laughing and getting to know them a bit better. It’s amazing to me who you think you’ll click with at the beginning of a trip usually aren’t the ones that you actually do click with. Worth noting for the future…

I awoke at 4 am to use the bathroom and was greeted with an entire sky full of stars! It was a glorious sight – something I’ll remember in my head when I’m back home and can’t see any stars in Charlotte 🙂

Day 12 – Refugio Grey to the Grey Glacier

Because yesterday was such a tough day, today was an “easy” day. We were only doing 11k instead of 28. And at this point I needed the break. Last night was the worst night sleep that I’ve gotten the entire trek. There were 6 of us girls in bunkbeds sleeping in sleeping bags. I hate sleeping in sleeping bags – I feel like a sausage in a casing. Yuck.

We set out on our short trek a little after 8. Today we’d have rain. My fellow trekkers definitely had all of the appropriate gear for the rain. But thanks to Lisa, I stayed nice and dry. But it was seriously funny. The poncho she lent me was a godsend and it covered all of me – from my head to my pack and all the way down to my knees. But I looked like the hunchback from all sides except from the front! It was the butt of many jokes and gave us a lot of laughs. No worries, I have evidence of this too. Good thing I have no shame and can laugh at myself!

Again, the trek was beautiful – and relatively easy. The sounds during the trek seem to be the thing that’s staying with me. And trekking through the rain is completely different than through clear skies. The sound of rain hitting your gear drowns out the other sounds and you get lost in your thoughts and in the moment. With this type of terrain it’s a bit dangerous to not keep your eyes on the ground in front of you so it gets somewhat meditative. Follow the person in front of you, pick a good line – try to find stones to step on that aren’t loose – and avoid dunking your boots in puddles of mud.

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Halfway through we came to a viewpoint where we got our first look at the Grey Glacier. It’s a massive glacier with bits of ice floating miles away from the main part of the ice. It reminded me of a scene from Titanic J I was very excited to see it up close.

Another couple hours and we were at Refugio Grey – another place for trekkers to camp for the night. We had a quick lunch here, grabbed 5(!) bottles of wine from the restaurant and boarded the boat that would take us on a tour of the glacier. For an hour or so we drove within 50 yards of this huge, magnificent, menacing piece of ice! I asked about the temperature of the water and was told you could survive for about 7 minutes in it! I took tons of pictures and we all drank a good bit of wine and just celebrated being off our feet and the gorgeous sight before us.


Ice-Cave-Glacier-Grey-Patagonia-ArgentinaWe had just a short walk after the bus in the now-pouring rain to a van that would take us back to Ecocamp. I’d already gotten spoiled at Ecocamp. We have warm showers there, wonderful food and wine, warm, cozy lounges and soft music. It’s totally unlike the refugios but it was very cool to experience at all. I was, however, ready to get back to the relative luxury of our camp.

We finally got back, I had a shower and headed down to the bar where the rest of our team was. Our assistant guide had gotten some ice from the glacier – no one really knows how he got it – but the guides took it outside the bar, chopped it up with a hammer and we all had a bit of scotch over glacier ice. Seriously, unbelievable!

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Our guides cutting up glacier ice with a hammer!

Tomorrow is our final “difficult” trek to the base of the towers – the most famous trek of the area. It’s said to be 22k and will take about 8 hours. And one of our fellow trekkers asked our assistant guide – Diego – if there was any way he could do a trek to the base of the towers AGAIN to be there for sunrise. So I’m seriously considering that as well. I mean, how often do you get to do a trek in the middle of the night and see something 99.9% of the population will never see?!?! Of course it makes me want to do it…check back…

Day 11 – Refugio Cuernos to Refugio Paine Grande

I’m not sure where to start describing my day today. So I’ll just begin at the beginning. I woke to a beautiful sunrise reflected on the mountain and casting a pink/orange glow on everything. It was going to be an even more beautiful day.

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We started our trek at 8:30 am in the direction of Campo Italiano. Our trek today would take us into the French valley – Valle del Frances to the highest lookout point – the Mirador Valle del Frances. We’d then trek back the way we came and continue on to the Refugio Paine Grande.

The beginning of the trek was what our main guide – Roberto Carlos – called Patagonia flat. Not flat! But relatively gentle incline and declines followed by some not so gentle inclines and declines. We were all pretty full of energy at that point. We trekked to Campo Italiano – our first resting point – on our way. At that point we were at 190m altitude and we could see the mountains and the glacier – Glacier Frances – in the distance. As I said in a previous post, it snowed a couple of days ago so the possibility of an avalanche was very high. We started to hear and see them at that point. To me, the avalanche sounds like machine-gun fire. And then there’s a small snow-explosion followed by the snow rolling down the mountain. It’s spectacular and very, very scary. The sound that it makes is indescribable.

From Campo Italiano, we were on our way to the highest point of the French valley. We started the climb and immediately ran into snow. So we were trekking through mud and ice and snow and it was so amazingly beautiful. And HARD! Although it was probably only 45 degrees, I was in just one layer and sweating like crazy.

The sounds were what really struck me. I’d hear an avalanche, which was loud enough to cause all of us to stop dead in our tracks and try to find it. That would be followed by complete silence as we all stared in complete awe. And then the steady sound of boots hiking through the snow and the sound of my  own heavy breathing. You couldn’t help but be in the moment – partly because if you weren’t something bad might happen – but it was so very peaceful.

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We made it to the summit around 3 pm. So we’d been trekking without more than a 5-minute break for more than 6 hours. And we’d gone from 190 meters to 970 meters elevation. It was quite difficult! But it was worth it!We had such a great view of the towers up there and stopped for 30 minutes or so to refuel.

None of us were looking forward to going back the way we’d came but we made the most of it. We slipped and slid back down through the snow and mud and made complete messes of ourselves. There was a bet made between 2 of our guys that whoever fell – on their butt – not on their hands – had to buy the other a beer. Probably needless to say, I did go down. But not all the way and only once.

It’s fascinating listening to the conversations that occur in the middle of a trek – from music to politics to cartoons. It’s fun getting to know these people. We all have something in common, right, so it’s great getting to know them day by day.

After repeating our way up and getting past Campo Italiano again, we were on our way to our final stop. At this point we’d been going for over 8 hours and were whipped! But we still had quite a while to go. However, on our way back we got to take advantage of more Patagonia flat. But at this point my neck and knees and feet where just aching! The only other time my feet had been in such pain was when I ran the marathon. Ouch!

Fortunately nature felt the need to give back to us. There was no wind and we could see all of the mountains perfectly reflected in the Largo Pehoe – a gorgeous lake we followed home. I’ve always seen pictures of snow-capped mountains perfectly reflected in water. Now I was seeing it in person. It looked like the clouds were perched right on top of the perfectly still water. Simply stunning! I’m not sure a picture will ever do it justice but I certainly tried to get the right shot.

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Finally! Finally we got to the Refugio and we all went in the direction of our highest priority. Mine happened to be a shower at that point – followed shortly by a nice Chilean white shared with a new friend, Chelsea.

I feel like I haven’t done this day justice with my writing. I simply can’t describe the peace and contentedness of being on this beautiful mountain surrounded by snow. There were so many moments when I would just look around and smile. It was remarkable and a day I’ll never, ever forget!

To more…’night

Day 10 – Ecocamp to Refugio Cuernos

Although it was cold in my ecodome, I slept like a baby and woke up to the most beautiful day feeling refreshed and excited. It was gorgeous outside – perfect trekking weather – 60s and sunny. We had a yummy breakfast and set out. Today was to be an “easy” day. We were only trekking 11 km – less than 7 miles – and there wasn’t too much of an elevation change.

IMG_2580From the beginning the vistas were breathtaking. We passed by Monte Almirante Nieto and could easily see the towers that Torres del Paine are named for as well as Lake Nordenskjold which was so blue and lovely. There are 3 towers that the national park was named for – Torre Sur (the South tower), Torre Central (the Central tower) and Torre Norte (the North tower). They’re the most majestic sight! And since it snowed relatively hard last night it was even more stunning.

We stopped a few times during the 5-hour trek. The day was just perfect. We ended our day around 4 pm at Refugio Cuernos. It’s hard to describe the refugio. There’s a central dorm-type area where the bar, kitchen and restaurant are. And then there are “huts” that sit on the mountainside and – similar to Ecocamp – contain 2 twin beds and a couple of tables. This refugio, however, contains a wood stove so there’s heat if needed. I was assigned one of the huts – which is like a hotel upgrade. Some of our group are staying in a room in the main area with 7 others – in triple bunk beds. But me and an Aussie named Stuart were given this sweet hut.

We all decided a beer was in order after our day and had a local beer called Austral which was just what the doctor ordered after the day. And it was still so beautiful outside that Stuart and I sat on the little bench outside our hut and talked about life. He told me about his 2 and a half month holiday with his wife – who had to return to Australia for work – and about all of the places I should visit when I go there.

IMG_2614 IMG_2613We had a nice dinner of “pork chop with love sauce”. Yes, seriously, love sauce. A local played some traditional Chilean music on his guitar and we drank some yummy Chilean red wine.

Today was an 11k trek. Tomorrow is going to be a 28k trek. So it’s time to get some sleep. We’ll be at it tomorrow for 10-12 hours and the elevation change is much larger.

I will say, I sit here in my hut on my twin bed looking out the door at a little slice of heaven. Not many people get to see this sight – I’m just blessed to be one of them.

Day 9 – “I am not the same having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world”

Honestly day 9 was about 10 hours in a bus! Not much to tell there but – I did get to meet the people I was to spend 7 days – and a ton of amazing experiences – with.

We are a group of 15 trekkers and 3 guides. Our treks will be broken up into 2. There are Bobby and Satinder – 2 cousins from the UK and Australia respectively; Deb, Mark, Erin and Martin – a family of 4 from the Midwest; Annie and Chelsea – friends from LA; Helen – a health professional from London; Mike – a sweet family man from the UK; Shayne – an adventure traveler from New England; Christina – a 21-year-old amazing young woman from Austria; Linda – a surgeon! from Germany; Stuart – a finance professional from Australia and me. So far we’ve all gotten on great. And our guides are Roberto Carlos, Claudio and Diego – all from Chile.

On the way to the national park – which is what Torres del Paine is – we stopped by the Mylodon Cave. This is a protected cave in Patagonia where a settler found a strange skin with thick hair that ended up being an extinct animal called a mylodon. Since that finding the cave has become a place where archeologists cove from all over the world to dig.

From there we drove to Torres del Paine. Remember the stunning vistas I was expecting upon entering El Calafate? Well I’d found them. Simply magnificent! Snow covered mountains and the setting sun. So lovely. We pulled up to Ecocamp around 9 pm. It was exactly like the pictures. Small standard domes, suite domes and what they call core domes which is where we eat, relax, drink great wine and do yoga. What an incredible place! Ecocamp is dedicated to leaving no trace of ourselves in Patagonia. They even have compost toilets – that was a new experience! I have to have to say that I was completely unprepared for how DAMN cold it was. When it got dark I was seriously worried about how I’d handle it. You all know how evil I can get when I’m cold! And only the suite domes and the core domes have heat. Oh well, I’d have to make do. I’d heard about the amazing food and wine at Ecocamp and wasn’t disappointed on night 1. We had a yummy pumpkin and ginger soup followed by a traditional Chilean beef roast. So good! And the vino tinto (red wine) served with the meal was so delicious. It reminded me of a pinot noir. With the wine and conversation and the HEATER in the dining dome, I finally warmed up. We were briefed about the trek the next day and I was off to bed. This girl really can’t do 2 nights in a row of going to bed at 3:30 am! The domes – although super cold! – are absolutely adorable. There are 2 twin beds and a couple of small tables and that’s it. The beds are actually gorgeous and covered by about 5 heavy blankets – thank goodness! It was hurry-up-and-change-and-hop-into-bed-freezing! But once I was under the covers everything was just fine. I had my water bottle filled with hot water and my gloves on. And all was good and peaceful with the world. A third of the roof is a clear plastic so you can see the millions of stars in the sky as you lie in bed. There is a quote on my refrigerator that says “You are not the same having seen the moon shine on the other side of the world”. That is exactly like I felt!

Day 7 – Dancin’ in the Streets

My last day in Buenos Aires was probably my best day. And that’s saying a lot! I had the entire day to myself to explore one last time. It was a gorgeous day! Mid 60s and clear, crisp, blue skies. After sleeping in I headed out to a café called Oui Oui that I read about on a local food blog – www.pickupthefork.com. It was excellent. With all of the meat and potatoes I’ve been eating it was a nice change to get fresh fruit and yogurt and granola. With a fully belly, it was time to just wander and do a little shopping.

I especially wanted to go to a park I’d passed by while on the Buenos Aires Bus called Parquet Tres de Febrero. It was this gorgeous green space with a running/biking/rollerblading trail and 3 small lakes in the middle. I’d brought my book and thought I’d find a good spot and people watch, read and take advantage of the beautiful day. As soon as I walked up to this area I knew I’d picked the right place. The first cool thing I came upon was a live band. Just in the park in the middle of the day. There might have been an occasion – I’m not sure – but the park was crammed with smiling, laughing locals and tourists. This also happens to be the location of Rosedal which are the botanical gardens in the middle of the city. This area is simply stunning! So much green and acres of flowers – 18000 rose buses – and sweet gazebos and bridges and the pond in the background. While exploring I came upon some more live music. Here there was a sign for what was going on. It was an event put on by Greenpeace called Salva el Artico – which translates to Save the Arctic. The Argentinian band was singing mostly American songs but it was so neat to be part of something. So I did find a spot and laid down and people-watched and took it all it. The sun was shining down on me and warming me up, I could hear the music, children’s laughter and birds. I could even smell all of the lovely flowers. It was a peaceful, amazing time.

Hungry, I set out to find some lunch. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again that my favorite days in a foreign country involve me stumbling upon something completely out of the ordinary. That’s exactly what happened next and it was freakin’ awesome! As I was leaving the park, I saw a big crowd of people dancing in the street. They just looked like they were having a blast. There was a sign nearby that said “Gratis” (free). So what did I do? I joined them! It was amazing. I danced in the street – literally – with about 60 or 70 Argentinians! We did some salsa, some jazz and even hip hop. It was just so much fun – I can’t even put it into words. We were laughing, we were sweating, we were falling all over the place and just enjoying every single moment. I will never forget it!

I’d asked Emma if she wanted to have dinner with me again and we planned to go to a typical Argentine restaurant that my teacher had recommended. I love getting recommendations from locals and this one did not disappoint. It was in the Belgrado barrio of BA on a side street and was absolutely adorable. Since it was my last night, I definitely wanted to splurge and try more local cuisine. So we shared a spicy beef empanada and a Humita empanada which was stuffed with corn and cheese and was delicious. Then I had the local dish called Locro. Cynthia – my teacher – had told us about this dish. It is very typical in BA – especially in the winter. It’s like a stew. With corn and beans and pumpkin and pieces of meat (of course). Oh, it was oh so good! That, great conversation and more Torrentes…it was a lovely dinner!

Emma had searched for a bar with some live Latin music so we were off for more fun. While at the next bar, her friend Sergio showed up with his friends. It was 1 in the morning and they were raring to go. Sergio really wanted to show Emma the city in all its after-hours glory. So we went to the famous secret bar that I was supposed to go to with Hernan on Tuesday! Frank’s Bar. I’d read about this bar and was very excited to go. The way to get into this bar – unlike the simple black door entrance of Puertouna – was through an old-fashioned telephone booth! Again, I don’t know what Sergio had to say to get us in but it worked. And again, behind this telephone booth was another trendy, stylish bar. I’m not going to lie – getting to do these great things makes me feel young and hip! Not a bad feeling for this 40-year-old. Unfortunately, we didn’t stay long because apparently the Mojitos were way too watered down. Sergio’s girlfriend definitely had to translate that conversation for me!

It was now 3 am and Sergio and his friends asked where we wanted to go next. My thought…my bed! I made the excuse that I had an early night and finally fell into my bed – with a smile on my face for the remarkable day I’d had – at 3:30 in the morning!

 

Day 6 – Livin’ like a local and a new friend and FEAR

Yesterday I finally felt like I was in a bit of a routine. It was a great day! Another gorgeous day here – back to typical spring weather, thank goodness!

It was my last day of school. Honestly, I was glad. And nervous. I had to take an exam. I tried to remember the last time I took an exam and I think it was when I was getting my Microsoft cert. That was about 10 YEARS AGO! And I kept thinking, “Why the heck do I have to take an exam????” I think it was more for the students who are doing multiple weeks at the school to make sure their placement is spot on. Anyway, it sucked but I guess I passed because they gave me this cheesy certification document.

I decided take a walk down this lovely street I’d passed while on the Buenos Aires Bus. It’s called Avienda Alvear. It’s a street in the Recoleta neighborhood and is the upscale part of Buenos Aires. This is the street where couture boutiques and high-end art galleries and luxury hotels exist. It’s amazing how different this street is compared with the rest of Buenos Aires that I’ve seen. There’s no trash and no graffiti and definitely no homeless. I was finally able to wear my backpack on my back instead of on my chest! And the architecture – oh, so beautiful! I kept looking up with this silly, awe-filled expression on my face. The typical tourist, right? It was absolutely stunning!

After walking I was desperate for a rest and some lunch so I stopped by a little steakhouse with outdoor seating. The problem with being desperate for rest and food is that you’ll put up with a crappy meal. Oh well.

I’d signed up for a “crash course” at Expanish. These are very quick – 2 hours – courses to get students familiar with useful words and phrases for travel. I was running late and didn’t have the time to walk back to school so decided to try the bus system without any help. Like I’ve always said, you learn a lot more when you get lost in a place. And I actually did very well! Got on the correct bus, told the driver where I was going in Spanish and got off at the right stop. Went the right direction to the school and got there right on time. Sounds silly but I felt very accomplished in doing this!

The crash course I’d signed up for was supposed to be about everyday fundamentals; how to ask for what you need in Spanish. Well, it ended up being about shopping in Spanish; the vocabulary relating to clothes and drinks and snacks. Shopping for clothes in BA is actually the last thing on my mind. Oddly enough, right? So I was a little disappointed with the crash course. BUT – I met a new friend! Her name is Emma and she lives in London but grew up in Dublin and has traveled all over the world. She’s in South America for over 2 months – 2 weeks of which she’ll use to learn some Spanish at Expanish. Well, we got on very well and I offered to show her the Subte (the subway or metro) because it would be her first time on it. So off we went. On the Subte as we sweated with the rest of the many, many people there, we chatted and decided to have dinner together. I was sooooo happy about it! I’d get to have a nice dinner with a nice person and speak in good-ole-English! I really needed it at that point.

After a shower and another Subte ride to the barrio where she is staying – Palermo – we met for drinks at La Pharmacia – an Italian restaurant on a busy intersection in a great area of Palermo. We managed to find – accidentally – a place that offered the white wine I’d fallen in love with the previous night – Torrentes. So we shared a bottle and very good conversation there. I swear, looking at and talking to Emma was like looking at and talking to a mirror image of myself. Except she’s better! She’s adventurous and ballsy and open to learning about this crazy, cool, different culture. Like I said, she’s here for over 2 months! After her Spanish class, she’s going to travel. But she has no plans or accommodations. She’s completely doing things exactly as she wants all the while knowing things will work out just the way they’re supposed to. It’s very, very impressive and I’m not afraid to say that I was very, very jealous. We just had the best time! After drinks, we went to a restaurant right next to her apartment that she’d passed by and looked great. Emma wanted steak and I was completely up for that. After almost a week here I’d yet to have a steak. I know, that’s embarrassing…the restaurant and the food were lovely. We both decided we were not up for a club or a bar crawl. BUT – Emma has a friend of a friend in Buenos Aires that’s been trying to get together with her and she’s going to see if he’ll take her and her new American friend out dancing tonight! I’m really hoping this comes together. Not only will I get to spend another evening with a beautiful person but I may get to go dancing with a LOCAL. Yay!!!

Then came the scariest part of my trip – maybe any trip – so far! It was around midnight when I headed back to my apartment. I didn’t realize the Subte would be closed and it would be an hour walk back to my apartment so I decided to get a taxi. Taxis are very easy to get here and I got one immediately. He didn’t speak English but I know enough now to get by and we were off. Our first stop at a traffic light and this man fell asleep! He fell asleep! I had to yell at him to wake him up. Then, while he was driving he fell asleep! Again! We were all over the road, cars were honking everywhere and he’s asleep at the wheel. Well, I’m not afraid of much but I was freaked out – obviously, right? So at the next light I would hop out. Which I tried to do and he said, “no, no, no” and drove off. Thankfully, he just drove over to the curb where he said “Es gratis” (it’s free). Seriously?! Did he really think I’d pay him?!? My response, “Si, es verdad!!!” (yes, it’s true…a.k.a. f*ck yes, it’s free!!). Perhaps I need to learn a few curse words for these types of situations…

Another taxi came along and I got home just fine – a little shook up but just fine. Well, at least it’s a good story…

 

 

Day 5 – Tests, Hot pink buildings and Wine! Wine! Wine!

Well I didn’t end up going to the restaurant on the water. It was just a little over the top for me. I just didn’t get a charming, this-is-historic-and-oh-so-cool vibe from it. But it was very romantic and very beautiful and I haven’t seen that many people on roller blades since the 90s!

I wanted to see downtown Buenos Aires at night so decided to take a walk and find some dinner. It is such a different area at night! So few people – only tourists and everything is lit up like Christmas. Casa Rosado – which directly translates to the pink house – is our version of the White House. It’s the executive mansion and the office of the Argentine president. During the day the house is baby pink – well – more the color of Pepto Bismal. It’s awful. And at night it’s even worse – but it does make a statement. It’s lit up with bright pink lights. Yikes!

I ended up going to the historic bar in BA called Café Tortoni which is a café in the center of BA and has been visited by many renowned people including politicians and international figures. Albert Einstein, Robert Duvall and Hillary Clinton have all visited this café! And now I have as well 🙂 It was a fun café – very touristy which usually isn’t my thing but I did get a nice glass of their Copa Reserva – which is their house wine and Suprema de pollo grille con guarnicion. This is grilled chicken. And guarnicion which is any food combined with olive oil and spices. This is a typical thing to see in BA – vegetables guarnicion or potatoes guarnicion. Now I actually know what it means.

 

After my tourist day I was itching to get to my apartment and a nice soft bed.

Thursday:

Today was one of those days that tests me. For all of the beautiful days in BA, this was the exact opposite! It was cold and dreary and windy and rainy. Just terrible. And then, I’ve begun to realize that I SUCK at Spanish! I am seriously glad that I’m not doing another week at the school because my brain is already inundated with way too much foreign information. It’s a relatively rare thing for me to feel my age but it is so hard for me to learn! I remember in college soaking up all of this information. Now it is so much harder. I’m embarrassed and frustrated. And on top of the crappy weather, I wanted to curl up with my puppy – who is probably curled up with my BFF – and cry. But the positive thing about “traveling Aimee” is that she can get up off her self-pitying ass and realize that she’s able to do just what she wants to do and that she’s blessed! So off to feel better I went – in the rain 🙂

I wanted to go to Caminito to look for some local art. Matias had mentioned this to me on Tuesday and I saw this area during my silly bus tour. Caminito is a traditional alley – located in the La Boca barrio of BA. The buildings in this area of town are painted in many different, bright colors. This was an area that was inhabited by immigrants to BA who painted the outside of their homes with the leftover paint from the shipyard because they couldn’t afford anything else. It is such an eclectic and cool place! Very touristy but worth it. I told my host and my teacher that I was going there and both of them said, “Alone?” Well, of course. Apparently this is the dangerous area of BA. You’re not supposed to walk there to get off the main avenue and PROTECT your bag. Well, anyone that knows me knows that if someone tells me not to go somewhere that’s exactly where I’ll go. And I loved it. And I bought a small piece of art so in case I don’t find anything else I’ll be good. I also got to see some very cheesy tango dancing. Wow – bad…

I had signed up for a wine-tasting class earlier in the day. And after the “I’m old and it’s crappy” day, I was seriously looking forward to it! Anuva wines is dedicated to getting the world to try all of the famous Argentinian wines but from vineyards with limited production – so premium Argentinan wines. And I haven’t so far spent any time learning about the wines – nor drinking them – since I’ve been here.

Well, it was everything I needed and more! I walked in to a sweet little area in the middle of a residential street that was so modern and cool. The tables were perfectly set and the wineglasses placed impeccably and fresh flowers in the middle of the table. It was such a far cry from the “student” life I’ve been living. And I was embarrassed by the jeans and dirty hair I was sporting. But the first thing I saw was a couple from California – Scott and Cynthia – with the biggest, most-welcoming smiles on their faces! They were in BA celebrating their 10th wedding anniversary and were so kind and welcoming and friendly. Again, I felt like the universe had given me what I needed when I needed it. And I never wanted to leave! The tastings where amazing. All Argentinian wines but some I’d never heard of before. Torrentes – which is the white wine of Argentina – was my favorite. But we also tried a Syrah and a Malbec and a Bonarda. This is a red wine that the sommelier promised would be the next Malbec. Oh it was oh so good!!!! But more than the wine and the tapas, it was absolutely…comforting…to be surrounded by kind, sweet, engaging people who speak the same language! We all really had a nice time. From Scott and Cynthia from LA to a couple from Paris and London to a couple from Brazil to co-workers from Argentina – we all got along like old friends. It was wonderful and really changed the way I felt about the day – THANK GOODNESS 🙂

Anuva Wines - Degustação de vinhos em Buenos Aires, Argentina

Upon my request, the sommelier recommended a place to get a good glass of Torrentes. So here I sit – in the Bar du March – drinking a delicious glass of Torrentes. Back soon…